I kind of hate arguing. But it happens. I’m not afraid of confrontation but at the same time it’s just not fun. It’s not a fun way to spend time.
Recently I’ve been reminded of some times of my life that are so pain-filled that it’s hard to sort through thoughts. I know some people understand what I’m saying when I say this.
Sometimes you don’t even realize how hard something will “hit” you until the “hit” actually happens.
When I feel led to write something, I spend time praying to try to not offend people but the truth is this;
~~> No matter what someone says, someone else will probably be offended. <~~
I realize it’s hard to sort through my own thoughts and feelings when something bad happens in life but it’s probably always harder to try to explain everything to another person.
Maybe if we could open our minds and download the memories into other people’s minds then they’d actually be able to understand where we’re coming from, why we’re who we are and more about how we got “here” wherever “here” is (because “here” looks different for every person in the whole world.)
SO many arguments happen because of one word;
In my experience, there are so many times we argue -but at the end of it all- it’s obvious that SO much of this fighting could be avoided if we could just understand each other better. (I’m not talking about marriage but yes, in marriage, FOR SURE!)
There’s this Guy who will never misunderstand you. He KNOWS your heart. He knows your motives. He sees the good in you EVEN when you can’t see it in yourself.
When you talk with Him, He just “gets” it, ya know?
You don’t have to REexplain it all again and again because He’s witnessed everything til now – and actually knows everything about your future also (but it’s still always okay and good to talk through everything with God.)
Sometimes He’s the last one we talk to
WHAT IF we chose Him to be the FIRST one?
~~> What would that even look like in your life if you talked to Him FIRST about everything instead of (or at least before) anyone else? <~~
I know there’s peace and clarity there that just can’t come from anywhere or anyone; not my husband, kids, friends, church, or anyone else.
Maybe we’re not supposed to completely understand each other.
It’s probably a good thing we can’t download memories to each other. I mean, if it was something God wanted this way, He could have easily done it. There must be a good reason He didn’t create us with this ability.
I guess the thing that would help in every situation – no matter what – good or bad – is just that;
Talk with God first.
I mean… what if we did?