We designed and bought magnets for gifts. And we also took the time to get a new little picture of the 3 of us and have it printed.
We sent a picture and a magnet and a note last Christmas to people we thought would appreciate them.
I knew the note and the picture were paper and may not last a long time.
But the magnet, I thought would last a really long time.
I was wrong.
It was the first time I’ve sent out Christmas cards in years because of some personal reasons.
This is what it looked like on our small budget.
After a short while I noticed the magnets hanging on our fridge, if they were moved much or touched much or fell on the floor or got water on the edges they soon looked more like this.
I will confess. At first we were sad about the company that told us they were “stick on car” and “all weather” quality magnets because it turns out they’re not such long-lasting magnets after all.
Also when I buy something (no matter the price or what it is) I kind of expect it to last forever. (It doesn’t.)
At first I felt embarrassed that the magnets aren’t the quality we were told… but after thinking and praying a little while, I realized that they are kind of like prayer.
We need to pray.
Then we need to pray again.
Since Jesus is part of a trinity with God and The Holy Spirit (like you may be one person and also many; a mom, wife, sister, cousin, aunt, daughter, niece, friend, etc.) and Jesus needed to pray so much then how much MORE do we need to stay in constant prayer?
Have you ever loved someone and they never acknowledged you or talked to you or looked at you? It really hurts.
God loves us and wants to be close to us more than anything.
He watches us sleep while we’re breathing the air He provided with the lungs He created and He longs to have more conversation with us.
He is jealous for you. It’s why He sent Jesus to pay our debt. Why He did things this way… I don’t have to understand the whole thing. My job is to believe and share Him.
Some people study The Bible like all the time but don’t talk TO God.
Someone can learn all ABOUT God and yet still not really intimately KNOW Him.
These sad looking Pray magnets ended up being a good reminder to me that this prayer thing is an hourly thing, moment by moment, and though one prayer can change a life, constant and often prayer is what we are called to for this intimate relationship with our Father.
He loves you.
[Note from Kerri Valor:
Some don’t know and some do know that divorce happened. The only thing he could not step on was my faith. There is a lot to talk about with the emotional abuse that had been going on for years and I have a lot to say about it but that’s not for this article.
Our God still is our Deliverer and He still delivers us out of unhealthy situations when we put our hope in HIM. My kids and I prayed for what to fast from and fasted from specific things for three months. The doors opened. God brings provision in all kinds of ways and from all over the place and this includes laughter and friends, legal help, He provides physical places to live, jobs, cars, and more.
The Bible says God hates divorce. I do too. It’s purely awful. It’s heartache like no other. But God does not hate divorced people.
A marriage is broken for many years before a legal divorce happens.
God sees every moment and He wastes nothing. He uses everything and He’s already been using this part of my story to reach people who need to have space from a husband who pushes them away in 100 different ways all the time. That’s not cherishing a wife and loving her as Jesus loves the church.
I’m not talking about a bad day. I’m talking about a toxic relationship.
While divorce is a very sad thing in some ways, no matter what the circumstances, this was another confirmation that when we fall back, trusting Him to catch us, He still does.]